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Court Orders Recognition Of Out-Of-State Gay Marriages

Ruling stems from divorce case filed by a couple married in California in 2008.

 

UPDATED (5:12 p.m.)—Same-sex marriages legally performed out of state must be recognized by Maryland Courts, according to a decision issued Friday by Maryland’s highest court.

“Maryland courts will withhold recognition of a valid foreign marriage only if that marriage is ‘repugnant’ to State public policy,” wrote Court of Appeals Judge Glenn Harrell Jr. in the 7-0 decision.

Legal experts and Maryland Attorney General Douglas Gansler said the decision has both immediate and long-term effects—even as the state moves toward a possible referendum on the recently passed law allowing same-sex marriage in the state.

Gansler, who in 2010 issued what he called “a forecast” opinion predicting the court would ultimately recognize out-of-state same-sex marriages, praised the court’s decision.

“This is the decision we thought they would render,” Gansler said. “The facts of the case show how logistically unworkable it would be to have ruled the other way.”

The Court of Appeals ruling stems from a 2010 divorce case filed in Prince Georges County.

Two women, Jessica Port and Virginia Cowan, were legally married in October 2008 in California. Eight months later, the couple separated and ultimately filed for divorce in July 2010.

The judge in that case ruled that recognizing “the alleged marriage would be contrary to the public policy of Maryland” and declared it not valid in the state.

Harrell noted that Anne Arundel and St. Mary’s counties granted divorces to same-sex couples married in states where such unions are legal.

“Putting aside for present purposes whatever may turn out to be the view of the Maryland electorate regarding recognition of the performance in Maryland of domestic same-sex marriages, the treatment given such relationships by the Maryland Legislature (until recently) may be characterized as a case of multiple personality disorder,” wrote Harrell, acknowledging the ongoing effort to place a recently passed same-sex marriage law on the ballot in November.

But the Court of Appeals ruled Friday that for a marriage to be valid in the state for the purposes of divorce, it “cannot be prohibited by statute or ‘repugnant’ to the public policies of Maryland. For the following reasons, Port’s and Cowan’s entitlement, on this record, to a Maryland divorce from their California same-sex marriage is not prohibited, as a matter of law and on this record, by these exceptions,” wrote Harrell.

“A valid out-of-state same-sex marriage should be treated by Maryland courts as worthy of divorce, according to the applicable statutes, reported cases, and court rules of this State,” wrote Harrell.

The Court of Appeals ordered the divorce case remanded back to the Prince George’s County Circuit Court.

Jana Singer, a law professor at the University of Maryland Francis King Carey School of Law, said the ruling extends beyond divorce law in Maryland by providing other legal protections enjoyed by heterosexual to same-sex couples—healthcare, child custody and the right to not be compelled to testify against a spouse in criminal court.

Singer was one of more than four-dozen Maryland law professors who filed a court briefing in support of recognizing same-sex marriages performed in other states. She added that the decision also means more uniformity in how those out-of-state marriages are recognized in courtrooms in the state.

“The Court of Appeals felt it was not fair or appropriate that people received different treatment based on which judge hears the case,” Singer said. “It’s not appropriate receive different treatment based on if you get Judge X in Anne Arundel County or Judge Y in Prince George’s County.”

The court decision comes as opponents of same-sex marriage are collecting signatures in an attempt to petition a recently passed law legalizing such unions in Maryland to the ballot in November.

Gansler said if the law was overturned by referendum that this ruling would still allow for the recognition of out-of-state same-sex marriages.

“It would have no effect whatsoever,” Gansler said. “They’re two completely different issues.”

Related Topics: Attorney General Doug Gansler, Douglas Gansler, Maryand Court of Appeals, maryland attorney general, and same-sex marriage maryland

Doug K

12:25 pm on Friday, May 18, 2012

Article IV, Section 2, Clause 1 of the constitution:
"The Citizens of each State shall be entitled to all Privileges and Immunities of Citizens in the several States."

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James Barbour

12:37 pm on Friday, May 18, 2012

...that constitutional clause refers to privleges and immunities offered by the Constitution, not individual state laws. As such...not applicable.

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CB9678

1:05 pm on Saturday, May 19, 2012

Can a gay couple married in DC be forced to testify against their spouse in another state?

James Barbour

12:34 pm on Friday, May 18, 2012

Every time gay marriage comes up for public referendum, the individual voter overwhelmingly says NO. Despite this, activist judges and "Vote for sale" politicians act to the contrary. Here's a hint...if Californians do not support gay marriage, then AMERICA does not support gay marriage...pretty simple, really.

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Adam R

1:31 pm on Friday, May 18, 2012

California voted against because their State was already in such crisis the citizens felt their own monetary position would be in peril if they allowed the law to pass. I don't feel it had any bearing on the peoples thoughts toward gay rights.

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Michael Middleton

1:40 pm on Friday, May 18, 2012

Yes, in certain circumstances, the legislators/courts are going against "the will of the people". Not the first time, and not the last time. "America" does not need to support gay marriage. However, America is required to afford the same rights and privileges to all of it's citizens. The case "against homosexuality" does not demonstrate significant harms against society, simplifying this down to pure discrimination.

You don't like it. That's fine. You don't have to. You will, however, have to deal with it.

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Brent

7:53 pm on Friday, May 18, 2012

Ever hear of protecting the minority from the tyranny of the majority? Or are we gonna continue to pick and choose what parts of the Constitution we're going to uphold?

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jenny

8:43 am on Monday, May 21, 2012

When the Supreme court decided Loving v. Virginia, and stated that marriage was a civil right and that therefore interracial couples were legally entitled to marriage rights in the USA, 94% of American's polled disagreed. A large portions of American citizens continue to believe that individuals with different racial backgrounds should not be married. Civil rights should never be decided by popular vote.

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TMB

3:01 pm on Wednesday, May 30, 2012

James - this is WHY we are a Republic, which protects the minorities FROM the majority. To say AMERICA does not support gay marriage is wrong. A cross section of America does not, but dammit, I am American and I support it. People need to speak for themselves and ONLY themselves.

Doug K

12:45 pm on Friday, May 18, 2012

In the Slaughter-House Cases, 83 U.S. 36 (1873) the court recognized two types of rights -- rights that U.S. Citizens have via the 14th amendment's "privileges or immunities clause", while the rights citizens have by being citizens of a state fall under the Privileges and Immunities Clause of Article Four (that I cited above). The Privileges and Immunities clause means that a state is obligated to recognize the equivalent basic rights from other states. If one is legally married in another state, then all states are obligated to recognize that marriage. Imagine if each state failed to recognize the driver's license of its neighboring states. It's the same principle.

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Escariot

7:36 am on Thursday, May 31, 2012

Dear TMB, do you always spread such propaganda and lies? No sir, the American public does not support gay marriage. In 38 votes, there is not a single state that voted to make it legal. Instead dear sir, citizens voted to protect the rights of a man and a woman to marry. If the american people supported gay marriage then the votes would be different. The house and the senate will be repub, as will the new president. This country is a disaster due to the ultra left wing failed principles of Obama. Have you read the components of the treaties that the pres is going to try and push through the senate? the law of the sea treaty, the international arms treaty? Sorry sir, i like my sovreignty, and i like the fact that our supreme court rules over americans, not the united nations.

Paul Amirault

12:53 pm on Friday, May 18, 2012

"overwhelming" is an interesting word. When North Carolineans vote 3-2 against same sex marriage, that is considered overwhelming. I wonder what the vote would have been if they got a chance on other civil rights legislation of the 60's?

Let's have a vote that all Muslims have to be fingerprinted. All atheists must attend re-education camps. Sounds silly, doesn't it?

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James Barbour

1:25 pm on Friday, May 18, 2012

That does sound silly. Why DID the Democrats do exactly that to the Japanese in WWII? In regards to the civil rights legislation of the 60's...why did the Democrats "overwhelmingly" oppose integration and civil rights? Wow, I'm really glad there were "narrow minded, Bible thumping, gun-toting..." conservatives to force integration and equal rights through Congress. Incidentally, 3-2 IS overwhelming in any election.

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Paul Amirault

1:58 pm on Friday, May 18, 2012

Ah James, the ole' Democrats opposed the civil rights laws mis-direction. If you wish to make arguments please tell the whole truth. I will listen much better.

The southern "democrats" who voted against the civil rights legislation en masse of the '60's immediately found a home in the Republican party. I'm sure you have heard of the "southern strategy"? I find it insincere to try to manipulate "facts" to fit your story. Just tell the whole story please.

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Paul Amirault

2:16 pm on Friday, May 18, 2012

Regarding the Japanese and the Communists, fear mongering and despicable.

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franking

3:15 pm on Friday, May 18, 2012

The Dixiecrats were Democrats, and most returned to the Democratic party where they remained for life. They would include Mendell Rivers, Al Gore Sr., Robert Byrd, Fritz Hollings, Richard Russell and Clinton's "mentor" William Fulbright.

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Paul Amirault

5:01 pm on Friday, May 18, 2012

franking, just false on it's face. Where are the "red" states and why? Try to answer honestly this time.

James Barbour

1:11 pm on Friday, May 18, 2012

Driving is a privilege where the interchangable use of the term marriage for union is not. Not the best analogy that you could have used.
The equivalent is "civil union", not marriage. I agree wholeheartedly that civil unions should be recognized...and they are.
Again, it comes down to a single difference...the will of the voter differs significantly from the actions of the courts. This dichotomy will be corrected as more states ammend their Constitutions (ref North Carolina) to reign in renegage courts.

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Paul Amirault

1:20 pm on Friday, May 18, 2012

Until the SCOTUS steps in to fix it. Which means one of the group of 4 must go, Alito, Roberts, Thomas or Scalia. I really wouldn't miss any of those.

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jenny

8:45 am on Monday, May 21, 2012

Then guess what, heterosexuals should only get civil unions and "marriage" should be left up to religous institutions or some nonsense. It's a ridiculous semantic argument. Either civil marriage is the business of the state, or it isn't.

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TMB

3:03 pm on Wednesday, May 30, 2012

James - do you even know the purpose of the courts other then throwing criminals in jail?

John D. Witiak

1:33 pm on Friday, May 18, 2012

As a Christian, I am delighted to read the court's 7-0 decision in favor of Maryland recognizing gay marriages from other states. Onward, Christians! Let's guarantee the right in our state for all.couples to marry.

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Escariot

1:40 pm on Friday, May 18, 2012

The supreme court will once again smack down all those liberal activist judges with a 5-4 decision, or better yet 6-3. They already smacked down Sotomayor and her Connecticut fiasco where she tried to prevent unbiased exams from being used to promote those that passed the test.

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AllStar

1:06 am on Saturday, May 19, 2012

Men marrying men and women marrying women. Men taking artificial hormones to become more feminine and grow breasts. Women taking hormones to become more masculine. Transexuals, transvestites, bisexuals becoming mainstream lifestyle choices. How is such perversion being championed? Whatever happened to we were created man and woman, man to be with woman? It's undeniably true according to our history, to our faiths, and to our biology.

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Elizabeth

8:40 am on Saturday, May 19, 2012

Really, a Christian? You know gay marriage goes against the Bible, right?

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CB9678

1:10 pm on Saturday, May 19, 2012

Elizabeth, so does eating crabs and pork!

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TMB

3:06 pm on Wednesday, May 30, 2012

Kenneth - that is YOUR version of God and YOUR version of the Bible. Thankfully, we are not a Christian Taliban nation. If you want to see what a country looks like that is ruled be religion simply look from the Mediterranean to the borders of China down to the desserts of Africa and the shores of the Indian Ocean. THAT is what it looks like. No thank you, Sir. I will take the US Constitution and the promise of "Life, Liberty and the Pursuit of Happiness" over that religious mumbo-jumbo any day.

Neighbor

1:39 pm on Friday, May 18, 2012

Having the majority vote on the civil rights of a minority is completely ludicrous. Thanks Doug K for presenting that information. The privileges and immunities clause clearly applies to this situation. We can't expect everyone to understand plain written English.

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Escariot

1:53 pm on Friday, May 18, 2012

When has the event of marriage been declared a civil right by the constitution or the supreme court?

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Joe Edgell

2:11 pm on Friday, May 18, 2012

Loving v. Virginia, 388 U.S. 1 (1967). "Marriage is one of the 'basic civil rights of man,' fundamental to our very existence and survival...."

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Paul Amirault

2:11 pm on Friday, May 18, 2012

Easy answer. Marriage yet to be taken up by SCOTUS. 14th Amendment, equal protection.

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franking

4:07 pm on Friday, May 18, 2012

The implication of the Loving decision is that it's inherently a part of the right of procreation. If marriage is a right divorced from that concept, than we should allow mothers and daughters to marry. Plenty of them are raising kids together and they could use the tax breaks, too.

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Joe Edgell

4:37 pm on Friday, May 18, 2012

Spurious argument, Franking. The societal reasons for not letting mothers and daughters marry and procreate are in large part the genetic problems that result. It is not practical, of course, for government to allow marriage but prevent procreation. Given that, the rule of mother/daughter prohibition exists and the rule against same-sex marriage should not.

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Neighbor

4:47 pm on Friday, May 18, 2012

That's a completely different type of relationship and form of happiness. And, under the current definition of the law, two complete strangers of opposite sex can get married for whatever reason be it taxes, immigration or higher military pay. Besides there are completely separate sets of laws regarding incest.

Jeff Hawkins

2:03 pm on Friday, May 18, 2012

@Paul:
"Until the SCOTUS steps in to fix it. Which means one of the group of 4 must go, Alito, Roberts, Thomas or Scalia. I really wouldn't miss any of those."

I think you might be in for a long wait, I would guess Kennedy & Ginsburg would be next and if Obama loses........well....you know what happens.

In addition I'm not seeing many rising young Democrats out there.......could be wrong........I do see quite a number of young Republican candidates coming soon.

I think in the near future the SCOTUS will be even more of conservative nature.

All this from the Seer of all things :))

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Paul Amirault

2:09 pm on Friday, May 18, 2012

I really like humor all seer! I am serious about that. I see a tight Obama win, I see Senate control for Dems, the House tightening. Another 4 years of gridlock too, then Hillary for 8 years with more gridlock. I am on the Weather Channel next!

I wish for the Bush tax cuts to expire, but Obama doesn't have the courage to do that, win or lose ;-((

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Paul Amirault

7:40 pm on Friday, May 18, 2012

Jeff, I heard Singapore is tax advantageous. Facebook...............

Jeff Hawkins

2:32 pm on Friday, May 18, 2012

Paul

I'm reminded of the old saying "great thinkers think alike", never heard of great seers (seering???) alike.
I see a tight race with "I'll Have Another" winning by a nose in the Preakness. You might be right about Obama, but it's going to really, really close with either side that loses being really "pissed".
Senate goes to the Reps., the House stays Rep., you might be right, more gridlock unless Romney wins!
Hillary's done I think.....maybe a reality show with Bill & Chelsea..........heck Dallas is coming back with J.R. & Bobby!!
No tax increase for me please...........I'm already leaving Maryland....been here since the early 50's to boot, I don't want to have to leave the U.S. too!!!
Good luck with the WeatherChannel..............I'm heading for Atlantic City.........I'm "seeing" green........

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TMB

3:12 pm on Wednesday, May 30, 2012

Jeff - no, you are wrong on the Senate. People - especially women - are ticked at the assault on their own rights. The Senate will stay Dem, and the House will go back to Dem's. As for President Obama, it's on the fence.

Sharon Shoemaker

2:45 pm on Friday, May 18, 2012

Always amuses me that conservatives love to use the term "activist judges" when it suits them. They are only activist when they disagree with conservatives for some reason. Anyway, here's why MARRIAGE is a right that must apply to all - simple freedom of religion. Your church may not marry all adults, despite gender, but mine does. Why am not permitted my freedom of religion, but you are? Claiming that someon else's marriage is against your religion is like being angry at someone for eating a donut because you're on a diet. One day this will seem ludicrous to our grandkids as we all believe white/black only facilities are ludicrous.

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Neighbor

2:58 pm on Friday, May 18, 2012

It would be ironic if Mitt Romney was elected and then managed to pass a law or amendment allowing for polygamous marriages. If one man and 3 women were all married, that would be equivalent to 3 heterosexual marriages and 2 homosexual marriages since the females would be married to each other too. hahahaha

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Neighbor

3:01 pm on Friday, May 18, 2012

Actually, my math was a little off. That would be 3 homosexual marriages! even better

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Jeff Hawkins

3:10 pm on Friday, May 18, 2012

@Sharon:
They were put here on earth soley for your amusement and also to help in keeping the canoe from tipping over.......

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franking

3:21 pm on Friday, May 18, 2012

That your church will marry two men or two women is why this has nothing to do with "freedom of religion." Your church is free to do that, just as they're free to give free food to intact families earning over 250k a year, but that doesn't mean the state is discriminatory in not giving food stamps to those families.

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Friedhard

3:36 pm on Friday, May 18, 2012

I like your comment, Sharon.

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Escariot

9:24 pm on Friday, May 18, 2012

Maybe the term activist judge applies when individuals such as Sotomayor are caught on tape and during speeches talking about activism from the bench then notice the camera and half-heartedly claim not to behave like that.

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AllStar

1:38 am on Saturday, May 19, 2012

Your argument makes no sense in so many ways. 1) activist judges are those who believe the constitution can be loosely interpreted and even changed to suit their desires (i.e. equating deviant sexual behavior to a minority skin color). 2) Your church has the right to marry whomever it chooses. Your church could marry a woman and her poodle if it wanted to but that has nothing to do with it being recognized by the state. 3) You want your "religious beliefs" that homosexuality is a godly behavior and should be praised and promoted by our government imposed upon the majority of God-fearing people who believe that homosexuality is against God's will. So I can argue that you are imposing your religion on mine. 4) Homosexuals are to heterosexuals as blacks are to whites is not a valid comparison. You are comparing black people to sodomists. That's disgusting.

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Elizabeth

8:45 am on Saturday, May 19, 2012

Again, you do know that gay marriage goes against the Bible, right?

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Chet Brewer

11:55 am on Saturday, May 19, 2012

all the whining about activist judges and they are pinning their hopes on the 5 who decided that corporations were people. Probably a safe bet , but sadly misplaced since they are going to be activist and set the come to christ folks above the rest of the citizenry in their zeal to break homosexuals on the wheel.

I think your all's definition of an activist judge is someone who you disagree with, kind of like your definition of a socialist

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anthrogirl

10:19 pm on Saturday, May 19, 2012

@Elizabeth. The bible is not the best document to look at for moral guidance in a literal sense. Here's a quote from Bishop Spong. "The Bible has been used for centuries by Christians as a weapon of control. To read it literally is to believe in a three-tiered universe, to condone slavery, to treat women as inferior creatures, to believe that sickness is caused by God's punishment and that mental disease and epilepsy are caused by demonic possession. When someone tells me that they believe the Bible is the 'literal and inerrant word of God,' I always ask, 'Have you ever read it'?" Elizabeth, the bible would have me stone to death my kids for being stubborn and rebellious (Deuteronomy). And it would have me stone my neighbor for talking badly about President Obama (Kings). I could go on with the people I can kill according to the bible. Many of its moral teachings and guidance are actually immoral and against the law. Why disregard the bible when it comes to killing kids but look to it for discriminating against gay people? Homosexuality exists in most 2 sex species where scientists have looked. It's throughout nature and nature is of God. Denying homosexual love is basically telling God he's wrong. Choosing to support legislation that causes needless pain and suffering to God's people is a sin.

Leslie Schildgen

3:02 pm on Friday, May 18, 2012

This is precisely why the Supreme Court should hear the gay marriage issue and make a blanket decision for the entire United States.

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Paul Amirault

3:06 pm on Friday, May 18, 2012

And just what would a 5-4 decision mean?

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Jack White

3:15 pm on Friday, May 18, 2012

You would leave this large decision to 9 people who always vote on partisan lines? Imagine a 5 to 4 vote going in either direction. Do 5 people get to prohibit gay marriage in New York? Or do 5 people get to mandate its accceptance in North Carolina? And think of it this way. There's a 4 to 4 split. One person then gets to make this decision for the entire nation. It doesn't seem right to me.

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Neighbor

3:15 pm on Friday, May 18, 2012

It would mean that we had 4 gay justices, 4 straight justices and 1 bisexual justice who had a crush on one of the others.

Jeff Hawkins

3:14 pm on Friday, May 18, 2012

Paul:
"And just what would a 5-4 decision mean?"

I think that it would mean somebody lost 5-4?? :)

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Paul Amirault

3:29 pm on Friday, May 18, 2012

I see Jeff on Jay Leno or SNL soon.

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AllStar

1:42 am on Saturday, May 19, 2012

If it would be 5-4 the other way, libs would be all in favor of that 1 person deciding for the whole country. What hypocrites.

Jeff Hawkins

3:18 pm on Friday, May 18, 2012

@ HyattsvilleCouldBeBetter:

"Actually, my math was a little off. That would be 3 homosexual marriages! even better"

How 'bout 3 guys, 6 gals, 3 sheep and 2 goats and couple of gerbils.........need a calculator I think :)

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Neighbor

3:33 pm on Friday, May 18, 2012

3 guys + 6 gals + 3 sheep + 2 goats + couple of gerbils = Armageddon

Zoobie

5:11 pm on Friday, May 18, 2012

Keep your eyes wide open folks, for there will be a 'Sign' this month! Who will be able to stand it? I fear many will be struck by it. My Prayers go out to all of Gods' children, believers and non-believers. Peace be with you.

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Joe Thomas

5:18 pm on Friday, May 18, 2012

Give me a sign about tomorrow's Preakness.

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Paul Amirault

6:27 pm on Friday, May 18, 2012

Solar eclipse? Already know about that. Which natural disaster will you pick? This is what we have to deal with? How many more will you predict? Simply nuts!

Marty Warren

5:19 pm on Friday, May 18, 2012

Who's paying the alimony??? Being equal isn't all its cracked up to be is it?
(Ha ha, only kidding, that was a joke ;-)

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Nicholas Aleshin

5:44 pm on Friday, May 18, 2012

Let us NEVER forget that of our two major political parties, the only one that supported slavery -- slavery was an official part of the party's platform -- was the Democratic Party.

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Paul Amirault

6:24 pm on Friday, May 18, 2012

Wake up, name branding from 200 years ago has no place today!

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1ke

10:51 pm on Friday, May 18, 2012

Sure they weren't Tories?

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Chet Brewer

11:58 am on Saturday, May 19, 2012

actually nicholas it was the southern democrats, you know they basis for todays republican party and the tea party morons. that democratic party that you are talking about, right?

amark

6:56 pm on Friday, May 18, 2012

I think this should make it obvious that even if the citizens of md vote down gay marriage in the referendum this fall, the courts in this state will overturn the vote. Isn't it obvious with this decision?

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Paul Amirault

6:59 pm on Friday, May 18, 2012

If so, how will it change your life?

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AllStar

2:04 am on Saturday, May 19, 2012

Paul, it will change all of our lives in big ways. Will religious organizations be forced to recognize homosexual marriage or be charged with discrimination? Will my children be forced to learn at a young age about gay sex because it will be considered equal to straight sex by the law? Will members of our armed forces be forced to share showers and bunks with homosexuals? (Oh yeah that's already starting to happen) Cases of HIV and other sexual diseases like syphilis will necessarily rise because of the embrace of this behavior. This will further deepen us into debt as HIV is incredibly expensive to treat and many will be on government insurance. I can play this out over time and it leads to nothing but necessarily and unavoidable bad consequences. This will change all of our lives for the worse.

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Paul Amirault

7:02 am on Saturday, May 19, 2012

These are my responses.

1. No. Will not ever happen.
2. Do your children have to learn about straight sex at a young age in school now? The term age appropriate comes to mind.
3. Members of the armed forces have been sharing showers since the dawn of time with homosexuals. Jst a fact. When a woman gets "hit" by a man whom she has no interest in, she simply says no. You can do the same and thank him for the compliment! :-)
4. This "behavior" is recognized not to be a behavior by all major mental health organizations. Just a fact.
5. These people already live together, have sex together, and that will never change. Just a fact. Let them get married.

I can go on and on Kenneth, and I will not stoop to calling you names, sadly others may do that. But your fears will or will not disappear and your acceptance of equal rights will or will not come to you, but your children and grandchildren hopefully will live with homosexuals without blinking an eye.

I am sure we will not agree, but nice talking to you.

Full disclosure - married 33 years, 3 adult kids taught to accept people for what they are, heterosexual.

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fred

8:19 am on Saturday, May 19, 2012

there are more heterosexauls with std's than anyone else. hence they cause the increase.

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TMB

8:59 am on Thursday, May 31, 2012

Wait wait wait... Kenneth, really? A committed relationship will cause a rise in STD's and HIV? Seriously? Your logic is flawed, my friend. Has STD's and HIV increased in countries that for a decade have allowed same-gender marriage? Ummm... no. It hasn't. Have those countries come crashing to the ground because of same-gender marriage? Ummm... no. Again, your logic is flawed. Guess what? I am gay. I was gay when I served in the Army *AND* the Air Force. I never 'hit' on a single soldier. Never had a need to (I was dating my Colonel while in the Army). Now, I have a loving spouse of 13 years who has been the 2nd dad to my two teenage sons who live and were raised by.... *US*! Both born of hetero unions... one where the mother was a drug addict and a boose hound and the other where she let her boyfriend physically abuse the 2nd kid. Ok, so here we are, two gya guys raising kids damaged by HETEROSEXUALS. And you want me to believe that *gays* are the downfall of society? Seriously??!?!?!?!?!?!? I would say the opposite considering I have had foster kids come through my home that were ALL abused by STRAIGHT parents. Give it a rest.

anthrogirl

9:05 pm on Friday, May 18, 2012

Let's simplify this and call all unions that bestow legal status, rights and protections "civil unions." Let's call all ceremonies (religious or not) that unite two people, gay or straight, "marriages". Let's make nothing legal about marriages. Leave marriages to the realm of personal faith and belief.

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John Bender

9:37 pm on Friday, May 18, 2012

+100 points for best answer. not sure why the rest of the group doesn't understand that

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fred

8:22 am on Saturday, May 19, 2012

i agree with your comment, but remember this article is really about divorce so this is why there needs to be a legal contract of marriage.

Escariot

7:44 am on Saturday, May 19, 2012

In Paul's world filled with unicorns, rainbows, and halos from his savior and messiah adorning newsweek, everyone is equal. No more raises, just a flat rate. Sports hero, musician, actor, artist, no problem you all get equal pay. Equal rights for redheads, obese people, people who are exhibiting balding, polygamists, those that want to marry their pets, those that are left handed....etc....So really Paul, where does it stop? Does it ever stop? For you nfl and nba fans, and baseball fans Paul wants it to be co-ed. Never mind talent, or winning, or anything like that in his world where everyone will share the field regardless because of "equal rights" as he puts it.

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Paul Amirault

8:04 am on Saturday, May 19, 2012

Escariot, the most ridiculous post I have read in quite awhile. The equal right to succeed is much different than your view, which is to put people at a disadvantage at the start, simply sad. Please continue to re-read the US Constitution at your leisure.

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Escariot

9:42 am on Saturday, May 19, 2012

Sorry Paul, this is not rainbow world. Equal opportunity to succeed is different than being a right. You can go to college, yet party and flunk out. That does not give the flunkee the right to the same salary as those that took advantage of their opportunities. Please tell us where in the constituiton that marriage is considered a right, or even a civil right. It is not. Therefore it is up to the states to decree laws involving such until a lawsuit brings it to the supreme court. Until then states have the right to pass laws banning subsequent marriages, which 38 already have. Your altered views on humanity are quite the shame because you believe in the same views as your savior obama of equal outcomes, not equal opportunity. Please explain sir how a civil union granting gays all advantages of property rights, inheritance, visitation/last will and social security transfers upon death would place them at a disadvantage. I am all for those things, even given same-sex couples healthcare, however i disagree that a minority has the constituional right to change the definition of marriage, which has been between a man and a woman before civilized cultures passed laws defining the benefits of such a union.

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Escariot

9:52 am on Saturday, May 19, 2012

One aspect of this banter is that it provides a modicum of comedy relief. Here you are Paul vehemently voicing your beliefs in gay marriage as a civil right, and that it is against the constitution and moral compass to discriminate in that fashion. Meanwhile, you support a president that yanked vouchers away from DC schoolkids that were economically disadvantaged to protect the teachers unions that support Obama. So which one is it Paul? Don't discriminate against gays, but go ahead and yank the equal opportunity that school vouchers give to children in public education systems that do not provide opportunities. Reference Louisiana on this one Paul. After Katrina, charter schools sprouted up in the state, and those schools not governed by teachers unions are having tremendous success. Explain that hypocrisy concerning equal opportunity.

Neighbor

8:24 am on Saturday, May 19, 2012

@kenneth pahr
If you think sodomy only occurs in the gay community, think again. Judging by the severity of your distasteful and hateful statements on this forum its pretty obvious that you are trying to compensate for your own demented deviant nature, whatever that may be. Gay people are people. I'll concede that sex can be a little gross if your not into it, but that's true for all types of sex including between a man and a woman. That's why those of us lucky enough to get it, do it behind closed doors. The important thing to remember is we are not talking about sex, we are talking about loving relationships and commitment. It doesn't matter who is loving who, marriage is a commitment and involves building a home and a family. Everybody deserves that right, and they should be able to do it with the person they love. By stigmatizing homosexuality you are doing harm to society. Nothing is more important than being true to oneself.

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Escariot

10:23 am on Saturday, May 19, 2012

Building a home and a family. How does a gay couple procreate and produce offspring?

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Chet Brewer

11:46 am on Saturday, May 19, 2012

hmmm adoption and artificial insemination come to mind, the same thing that couples who are infertile do. Guess that was too much of a stretch for you escargot or whatever

Tom

9:22 am on Saturday, May 19, 2012

Another workaround-parachute in politically motivated tactic for the progressive movement run amok in this country capitalizing on the gay vote.

Now we can just remove the gay-marriage legislation just recently passed and people can just go get gay-married in another state and come back here.

Let's just accept the truth that a gay union is different than a heterosexual marriage. If the gay community would just accept that truth as the heterosexual community has, then devising gay union laws similar to heterosexual laws would be that simple, rather than hijacking existing laws as a matter of convenience to fulfill a never ending dissatisfaction of voting results and judicial decision not in gay favor.

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Neighbor

10:06 am on Saturday, May 19, 2012

It's only different to you because of your preconceptions and bias. Separate but "equal" is societies way of dodging the true issue, which is that same sex couples are being discriminated against. I've watched same sex couples get torn apart because of immigration laws that specifically only provide citizenship for the spouse of a US citizen. How would you like it if you loved a woman from Brazil but couldn't live together here on US soil because she was being deported? If they want to call it something else, then there will always be a distinction between the two. It's discrimination.

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Escariot

10:09 am on Saturday, May 19, 2012

So then it must be discrimination when we deport other illegal aliens for violating our laws too?

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Tom

12:50 pm on Saturday, May 19, 2012

No discrimination.. just no laws for the behavior.. so make new ones thats all to provide for the common good of all citizens.. just don't hijack marriage laws.. make gay laws.

Neighbor

12:33 pm on Saturday, May 19, 2012

Who said anything about breaking the law? I'm talking about couples with different citizenships. In this situation the visa would expire and the foreigner would be forced to leave unless they could marry. By legalizing same sex marriage, gay people would have the right to keep their lovers in the country. A right which currently is being withheld from them. If illegal immigrants go around breaking laws I'm fine with them being deported.

You have no empathy if you can't imagine the pain of not being able to legally marry someone you love. Love has no borders and neither should marriage. Maryland's recognition of out of state same sex marriages is a good thing. If you don't like it go move to Texas.

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Tom

12:53 pm on Saturday, May 19, 2012

I really think we should distinguish gay unions as a new institution and legal concept! Would be a great compromise to most even though the gay community will never be satisfied, just like any group that constantly complains! You can't have everything in life.

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Escariot

1:27 pm on Saturday, May 19, 2012

So those that follow the rule of law have no empathy? If you sneak into a country illegally and fall in love and cannot marry, whose fault is it? I do not have to move to Texas. I will simply vote against the referendum for gay marriage and will watch as the supreme court votes 5-4 against it in the future.

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CB9678

4:51 pm on Saturday, May 19, 2012

Tom, I would agree except even when people suggest that the Jesus Juice Crew Goes crazy about that.

Escariot, On what basis do you figure SCOTUS will invalidate gay marriage in Maryland if it passes referendum? The law was passed by both houses of the general assembly, signed by the governor and brought to the ballot by citizens. The law was validly passed according to the Law of the Great State of Maryland! If you believe the Federal Defense of Marriage act is going to stop it you are mistaken. The F-DOMA is Un Constitutional since there is no where in the US Constitution which allows the Federal Government to define marriage!!!!! Since that power is not reserved for the Federal Govt. it is given to the states! I doubt SCOTUS will ever touch it unless it has to do with a married couple in one state being denied married privelages in another!

EL

10:19 pm on Sunday, May 20, 2012

So if other state marriages are recognized, and divorces are granted, is this an "end run" to say the state recognizes gay marriage legally? Serious question, not stirring up trouble.

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CB9678

10:34 pm on Sunday, May 20, 2012

@ EL

It is not an end run. When Gansler issued his opinion a few years ago which essentially said what the court ruled that became the policy of the state absent a Court ruling to the contrary. Essentially this says that in Maryland we recognize all out of state marriages as it is mandated in the privelages and immunities clause. Marriage is a court action. The bill up for refferendum is wheather they can be performed in our state. Currently they can not but since DC will issue a marriage liscence to people who do not reside there it became an issue. When it was states like Massechuesetts who only issue marriage liscences to those who reside in the state it was not an immediate issue. Thus the opinion.

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Arbutus Town Crier

11:09 pm on Sunday, May 20, 2012

Look if people don't realize and judge that Love crosses all boundaries a true gift from from a greater authority, But we have our rights to believe and be tolerant. This leave me to conclude That its up to the states to decide Freedom of choice Nature has a way of working things out. no need to judge or be a bigot. Just fight for your sates rights We all have different views but I believe in tolerance, Let each and every state to decide and let the Feds protect us for outsiders . we can live together and live in the areas that accept the views. but have it forced upon us by a top down government Same this is a country of people that accept tolerance and respect others rights but not in my neighborhood Feds let it be we can figure it out we dont need a king and jesters rule but the people.

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Leslie Schildgen

9:17 am on Monday, May 21, 2012

If there is no national law regarding the legality of gay marriage, what happens if I get married in one state, own property and then move to another state and get divorced. Do I abide by the law in the state where gay marriage is legal and divide the marital property equally or abide by the law in the state that doesn't recognize gay marriage. What a legal mess that would be.

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James50

4:39 pm on Monday, May 21, 2012

Did we or did we not have this conversation 12yrs ago? 1) Interracial marriage (Check) 2) Men marrying men/ Women marrying women (Almost a check) 3) Humans having sex with animals/marrying animals (Next) 4) Adults having sex with 1 and 2 yr olds. (Coming soon) Morality differs in every society, and is a convenient term for socially approved habbits ~ Ruth Benedict, Patterns of Culture (1934)

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wilson

9:11 pm on Monday, May 21, 2012

them folks in africa might have it right by executin those gay people. god dont like it.

Paul Amirault

4:51 pm on Monday, May 21, 2012

Interesting progression analysis, so thus interracial marriage equates with humans having sex with babies, animals and consenting same sex adults? Curious? Sort of like gateway drugs? Wow.

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Escariot

6:34 pm on Monday, May 21, 2012

If marriage is redefined legally, and considered a civil right, then what is stopping people from marrying multiple partners, underage partners, partners of the same immediate bloodline, partners of the animal species?

James50

5:28 pm on Monday, May 21, 2012

Thinking more towards regression. As to the full disclosure, do you believe deep down in your heart of hearts that your children learned to accept people for what they are? LMAO!!! Stop playing.

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Paul Amirault

5:41 pm on Monday, May 21, 2012

You appear to have racist beliefs. To answer your question, yes. That means they recognize criminals, non-criminals and idiots too. They tend to stay from the first and latter. Have a great day!

Escariot

6:38 pm on Monday, May 21, 2012

Once again paul cries racism. People such as Paul are the reason why the racial divide has grown in the past 5 years. Anyone not agreeing to his rainbow world ideals must obviously be a racist or bigot. When obama loses in november paul will be the one screaming from the mountaintops about racism.

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James50

7:48 pm on Monday, May 21, 2012

@Escariot, Paul has owned a million dollar company and has never employed a black or gay person. Him nor his children have black or gay friends and if they did, the children would see these people as hired help. Trust me when I say that Paul does not live in the rainbow world, its just a model that he follows. However, do not count Paul out, he is a very smart man with much wisdom. He needs the courage to break free from his old way of thinking!!!

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Hans-Adam III, Prince of Liechtenstein

8:07 pm on Monday, May 21, 2012

Paul Amirault is the worst kind of liberal a "limousine liberal",

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Escariot

8:34 pm on Monday, May 21, 2012

He is an ideologue, and those like him do not have "wisdom". Wisdom comes when one has an opinion or philosophy that is malleable in light of changing truths and facts. Ideologues ignore facts that do not support their opinion. A good example of this is how msnbc edited the 911 tape in the Trayvon Martin case. Another example is how paul "limousine liberal" espouses gay marriage as a civil right yet supports dems that squash educational opportunities for minorities and those in poverty to protect teacher unions that pump money into democratic coffers. It also occurs when Paul ignores the fact that dems appointed frannie and freedie ceos that contributed to the housing crisis, and how frank, todd, and obama prevented those companies from being regulated by congress.

Jeff Hawkins

8:48 am on Thursday, May 31, 2012

@TMB
"Jeff - no, you are wrong on the Senate. People - especially women - are ticked at the assault on their own rights. The Senate will stay Dem, and the House will go back to Dem's. As for President Obama, it's on the fence."

Sorry TMB....the seeier has seen what he sees. He sees liberal type women ticked off, that's no surprise........it's been ordained already

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Escariot

10:18 am on Thursday, May 31, 2012

Tmb, you just made my argument completely. Did you and your partner conceive those children? no. So if you cannot conceive children, then how does society grow and multiply? Wake up and smell the rainbows. 38 states have amendments banning same sex marriage. Never in the history of the country has a state voted for gay marriage. It has been defeated, always. It will again be defeated in maryland this fall.

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Neighbor

11:29 am on Thursday, May 31, 2012

Escariot, your ignorant blabber is getting annoying. Gays deserve the right to marry! Go gays! Same sex couples deserve equal treatment under the law. Maryland loves it's gays. They revitalize neighborhoods, which is something Maryland could definitely use. Without the gays, DC would still be a slum. Just accept it, gays are smarter and better looking than you, so just stop the hate.

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Jeff Hawkins

12:11 pm on Thursday, May 31, 2012

@Hyattsville
Who's Marry and why do they have a right to her?
Go Gays? A team from San Fran no doubt! Got your pom poms?

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Escariot

12:13 pm on Thursday, May 31, 2012

Hyattsvillecouldnotbequeerer, your ignorant blabber is blase but expected. Your material is bigoted. You wonder why gay marriage consistently gets voted down? It is attitudes such as yours. The constituion never states that marriage is right, nor is it regarded as a civil right elsewhere. Your immediate replies of homophobia and bigoted remarks only ensures that people such as myself will continue to vote down gay marriage and support the fundamental union of a man and a woman. Without gays, procreation would continue to occur. Enjoy your rainbow, while it lasts. The rest of us live in the real world. Fundamental marriage 38, gay marriage 0.

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Neighbor

12:54 pm on Thursday, May 31, 2012

Look at you guys all angry. It's pathetic. Your arguments are based on hate and ignorance. You've done nothing but trash this thread from the beginning. Every time someone argues against you sensibly, you completely ignore the logic and continue rambling anti gay nonsense. I'm just sick of getting emails with your bigoted remarks on a tired old thread. Give up. We all know your opinion. We all know you are bigots. Don't you have something better to do than attack people who have nothing to do with you? Gays have existed since the beginning of reproductive life, and it doesn't matter that they don't reproduce because the complex genetics are recessive.

Jim Groves

11:36 am on Thursday, May 31, 2012

It has been proven many times over that those who complain the most about gay marriage or gay lifestyle are most likely gay themselves. They fight so hard against it as a way to prove to themselves they are not gay. It's ok, come out of the closet.

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dengwall

11:44 am on Thursday, May 31, 2012

Wow. This is a hilarious thread.

With gay marriage (which I find a hilarious distinction, because we're basically talking about marriage, because I've never had to define my marriage as a straight marriage), I find it abhorrent that states would deny civil rights by popular vote. As for biblical fundamentalists, please stop quoting the bible unless you're prepared to follow all the rules and edicts.

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Escariot

1:31 pm on Thursday, May 31, 2012

Hyattsvillecouldnotbequeerer, you just made my argument. You mentioned gays existing since life began, and they were never married then either. It was a union between a man and woman before civilizations rose to prominence from the time of the druids to the precursors in the delta valley known as Egyptians. That union of man and woman existed before cultural and financial implications were ruled on by those people. You are simply on the wrong side of the argument. The American people have voted 38 times out of 38 to preserve fundamental marriage over that of gay marriage. I wonder hyattsville, why don't you go down to the nearest mosque in maryland and picket, and protest muslims for having the same views concerning marriage?

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David

3:30 pm on Saturday, June 9, 2012

In early colonial Maryland if it had been put to a vote if protestants ought to have rights, the voters would have voted NO. If in 1600 voters had been asked to stop burning "witches", voters would have voted NO. If in 1860 the voters had been asked wether blacks ought have rights, the voters would have voted NO. If in 1900 voters had been asked if women ought be allowed to vote, voters would have voted NO. If in 1950 voters had been asked wether segregation ought end, voters would have voted NO. If in 1960 voters had been asked to allow interracial marriage, the voters would have voted NO. So here we have it, Prejudice 6, Civil Rights 0. That is WHY the founding fathers separated church & state, to protect the fledgling democratic republic from the dogmatism of would-be theocrats. So let Judas Iscariot move to a islamic country where he will be welcome because of his name & deeds, and where he wont have to worry about gays trying to live happy lives in peace.

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Escariot

8:29 pm on Saturday, June 9, 2012

So, according to your post above, we should impeach Barack Obama because he crossed the separation of church and state by trying to force religious institutions to pay for abortions. I am glad that we agree. Also, the vote on healthcare using reconciliation should also lead to the impeachment of Barack Obama because 60+ percent of Americans opposed it. But strangely sir, I do not see your posts concerning those issues. Why? Because you are a hypocrite. Once again sir, if marriage is a civil right, why can't children marry their grade school sweethearts? Why can't relatives marry? Why can't people marry multiple individuals? My bad, because never has marriage been considered a civil right. So, let David move to europe, because right now the record is states 38, gay marriage 0. By the way David, since you are so brave and mighty on the internet, why have you not protested every mosque and islamic community center for their views on gay marriage? My bad, just like all liberals you sit behind your computer screen thinking that you know "what is right, what is better" for the rest of us americans that oppose gay marriage. When the supreme court rules 5-4 that marriage is a privilige, and not a guaranteed civil right you will be crying like the liberal baby you are about the scotus. Don't let the door hit you on the ass when you leave for europe david....

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